What should be done to maintain peace when friends are about to fight?

Getting them away from the crowd is the most effective approach to maintain peace in a tense situation where friends are about to fight. By removing individuals from the environment that may be provoking their aggression, you help reduce the external pressures and distractions contributing to the conflict. This can help lower their adrenaline and allow them to think more clearly, potentially leading to a resolution of their disagreements in a calm manner.

Isolating the situation can create a more private atmosphere where they might feel more comfortable discussing their issues without the influence of bystanders who could escalate tensions or encourage negative behavior. It gives them the opportunity to reflect on the situation and may enable them to find common ground or resolve their differences peacefully.

In contrast, suggesting they “settle it like adults” may come across as dismissive and could further ignite a desire to fight. Encouraging them to walk away can be useful, but if they’re still in a charged environment, the likelihood of them acting on that suggestion diminishes. Supporting the one who is wrong not only undermines conflict resolution but could deepen the divide between friends. Keeping the friends away from the crowd effectively creates a safer space for communication and resolution.